My name is Thomas Gray and I am the owner of Thomas J Gray Funeral Services, an Independent and family run Funeral Directors. At Thomas J Gray Funeral Services we provide compassionate and personalized funeral services honouring every life with dignity and respect. Our experienced team comprising both male and female staff are dedicated to supporting you during this difficult time. We offer a wide range of services tailored to your needs, ensuring every detail is handled with care. Whether you seek a traditional service or a unique celebration of life, our compassionate professionals are here to guide you every step of the way.
Cremations are now the most popular form of funeral. Most people will want a ceremony at the crematorium – using their chapel – but you can also hold the service in a church or other venue of your choice prior to the cremation.
It is entirely up to you if you want the service to be religious or non-religious. A religious service will be conducted by an ordained minister or clergy from a specific faith or religion whereas a non-religious ceremony can have a civil celebrant or officiant from the humanist society.
Thomas J Gray Funeral Services we can help make arrangements for whichever type of service you would like.
Funeral services can be as formal or informal as you would like – and it’s entirely up to you as to how religious the service is depending on your beliefs and the wishes of your loved one.
Thomas J Gray Funeral Services can organise the funeral and a burial at your chosen cemetery, graveyard or burial ground and purchase a grave on your behalf where necessary. Most burial grounds have a chapel or room where the service can take place, but you may decide you want the service to take place in a particular church or other venue that has meaning for you.
If you already have a family burial plot we may be able to arrange for it to be reopened before the burial. If you would like burial plots which are next to each other, you’ll need to talk to the local authority about the possibility of purchasing or reserving multiple plots and again, we can help you with this.
A Direct Cremation Service is a simple, dignified and affordable funeral. We will take care of all the necessary arrangements including:
jill Edgley2024-10-26Tom turned what was the most horrific experience with a national cremation company and a local funeral director used by them in Morriston, into something most beautiful. Tom has been absolutely amazing in caring for my love and soulmate. Everything has been extremely dignified and treated with so much respect, I cannot praise him enough, from bringing him into his care and placing the clothes he would have wanted to wear, giving us time and space to be with him several times, and placed pictures in with him before the cremation. Helping me with flowers order of service and having his fingerprints organised. I can only say I was completely shut down and didn’t know where to go or what to do. Tom was there every step of the way. Even when I felt if I’m not talking about it, it’s not happening. He was extremely patient and it felt like we had known him years not just a few weeks. Thank you Tom you have just simply been amazing, I know Barry would have liked you too.Tori Edgley2024-10-26Absolutely amazing service! Took care of my dad excellently and treated him like he was still around. Went and spoke to him, when we visited he would knock and tell my dad we had come to see him. After my mum had been treated horribly by another funeral home, Tom took care of everything and went above and beyond to make sure my mum had a positive experience and make sure dad was properly looked after. Even helped mum put dad’s ashes into the custom urn she had purchased. He also set some of my dad’s ashes aside for myself so I had a little bit of my dad. To also add on, he also reached out to Natalia who does fingerprint jewellery and helped us get my dad’s fingerprints so we could carry around a memory of him. Couldn’t praise Tom more highly!Ian Morgan2024-03-03Such a professional, caring and excellent service. Highly recommended. Our family can't thank Tom enough for being very supportive during a very difficult time.Carol Morgan2024-01-30Just wanted to say that Tom have been absolutely amazing and supportive at that sad time. He really looked after my mam and also looked after us all as a family. Would definitely recommend him in a situation like this. He took control over everything and taking the weight of us so we could all grieve as a family. We all can't thank Tom and his team enough. You all been amazing.Kim2024-01-20Professional and empathetic service.Samantha2023-09-28We just wanted you to know. You made everything extremely simple for us with compassion and dignity. We appreciate Tom going above and beyond making a difficult process Very straightforward. I would like to say the most sincere thanks for your support and understanding without you this necessary process would have been much harder.your a lovely man Tom thank you so much. Best wishes Samantha Lodwig and LindaDonna Hayes2022-10-21my husband passed away in September and I didn't know where to turn till I was told of Thomas gray cremations I would highly recommend his services as he did spencers funeral with great dignity and everything we asked of him got done there was nothing too much trouble for Thomas I would give him the highest number of stars 🌟beckyboohowells2022-05-31Dealt with Thomas on two occasions and both times he has made an awful time that little bit more easier. Kind hearted, caring and can’t do enough to help and make a sad time as smooth and as calm as possible. Nothing is too much and always on hand with any questions or help when you need. Would 100% recommend.Alice Harman2022-04-14Thomas was so kind and considerate when we approached him to organise the funeral. It was the best decision we could have made. Thank you so much. Alice and family.Kelly Mackennall2022-04-13Recommend 100% Thomas is kind and very professional.Verified by TrustindexTrustindex verified badge is the Universal Symbol of Trust. Only the greatest companies can get the verified badge who has a review score above 4.5, based on customer reviews over the past 12 months. Read more
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